# 1 Kings 16 #soap ## Title: What Price Are Our Kids Paying? ## Scripture: (1 Kings 16:34) “During Ahab’s reign, Hiel the Bethelite rebuilt Jericho. Abiram, his firstborn son, died when he laid the foundation; Segub, his youngest son, died when he erected its gates, in keeping with the Lord’s message that he had spoken through Joshua son of Nun.” (NET) ## Observation: It is possible this phrase means they were sacrificed as a dedication to the pagan gods. This is why such hard judgment fell upon the nation. It was a devastating tragedy. In today’s culture, we (of course) wouldn’t dream of doing such a thing… or do we? We would never literally sacrifice our kids, but we often put them at the mercy of our career, other relationships, hobbies, addictions, etc. I read a quote one time that said, “The only people who remember how late you worked are your kids.” Ouch. Now, there is a balance. Your kids will also want more of you, and you cannot give them everything. You have to work, you need hobbies, and they need to learn to be independent. However, are you watching that balance? Are you sacrificing your kids on the altar of promotion, public opinion, or advancement? ## Application: Take a serious look at your time. Where do you need to place “sacred spaces” that only your family can fill? ## Prayer: Thank You, Jesus, for leading us as Your children.